Friday, August 24, 2012

Going Home

On Wednesday, August 15th, Gemma and I got to go home!  I was extremely glad to be getting home. Unfortunately here dads/partners can't spend the night in the hospital, and there isn't a nursery where the babies can go to, so this made for pretty much no sleep for me for 5 nights.  Gemma lost over 10% of her body weight by day 3, and we were struggling with nursing, so that meant I was having to pump either before or after feeding her (I tried a couple different regimens based on recommendations by the pediatrician, midwives, and lactation consultants).  It was really hard those nights in the hospital.  I had some great midwives/nurses, but they had other patients to look after too.  Gemma lost a little more weight on day 4, but gained some on day 5 (discharge day).  Here we are all ready to go home!
Mom and Gemma

My hat is a little too big!

Off we go!

Bubbles checking out Gemma
It was great to be home!  My own bed never felt so good, and it was wonderful to have Paul there around the clock.  Unfortunately we struggled with nursing/pumping for another two days.  The public health nurse visited on Friday after we got home, and Gemma had lost a bit of weight again.  The amount that was coming out in her diapers was also decreasing.  It just wasn't working for us.  I struggled with the decision to give it up, but the evidence was pretty clear.  We started formula Friday afternoon, and the change was almost immediate.  She had a lot more alert periods, her output increased significantly, and when we had a weight check with the nurse again on Monday the 20th, she had gained almost half a pound!  We had her two week check with the GP today, and she had gained another 160 grams, so she's back up to her birth weight!

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